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This hexagram teaches us the proper way to deal with those who would cling to us for their own sake to feed off our energy. We are not to dislike them. We are not to be angry with them. We simply retreat into inaccessible heights, (our deeper thoughts) and a retreat from them mentally will leave them to find their own way, to be responsible for themselves. We have better luck defending ourselves from unsavories by ignoring them than by rudeness. Rudeness shows there is still an attachment, and it gives those who would feed off our energies an energy to attach to.
Gene
All animals have a built in survival instinct that has helped ensure that the fittest survive to propagate the species. The slowest wildebeest in the herd is the one that becomes supper for the lions! This instinct is alive and well, and functioning in each and everyone of us.. and our companies. In order to mobilise our bodies to meet the perceived threat, we prepare for either flight or fight (which we choose depends on our natures and our circumstances). Our body begins to close down all extraneous functions, blood is pumped to the main muscles and away from the skin (we go pale) sugar is metabolised by the adrenalin, pupils dilate, digestion stops, skin sweats, breathing becomes shallow … In this state we are only fit for survival. We can't listen, we can't be creative we are a victim of this mechanism.
You might wonder what this has to do with the modern board room, but if you are either very honest, or very observant you will know that it is more than just a metaphorical jungle in there! In this state we will do (or say) whatever it takes to get out of the situation. You can not reason with people in this state, you can not build true consensus, you won't hear the truth. You only have access to about 10% of people's abilities. In other words, you can't proceed with change (or even with business as normal) unless the Flight/Fight mechanism is disarmed. The bad news is that because of the ancient herd mentality if one animal 'scents a lion' than all the other animals that don't want to be lion food also prepare for flight (if you stop to ask why we are running you might get eaten!)
It is not only possible but imperative to pull people back from the edge if you want to be part of a high performing team with access to all those expensive brains and capabilities. The good news is that there is a polar opposite to the Flight / Fight response called the Relaxation Response. In this state people are super creative and very receptive to change and innovation; creativity is high. This is where people make their personal breakthroughs and 'Ah-ha's!' The great news is that the brain rewards you for this important survival behaviour (creativity and learning) by flooding the brain with endorphins (brain chemicals that create a natural high)* So work becomes more productive and more fun as you escape that jungle!
Learning to recognise when you are 'running away' (even if your legs are still) or 'fighting' (even if you are smiling) is an important step in understanding ourselves and our processes. Once we realise that that in this state we litterally can't hear what is being said, have no real choices and can help no one, we are at the begining of the road to re-engaging with our fellow human beings, who may well be just as 'triggered' as us. In fact this is very likely as when one gazelle on the plain spots a lion, they all start running; the technical name forthose who don't is 'Cat Food'.
Getojack:It seems Wilhelm must have been using a different version of the Yi or something, because he calls hexagram 33 "Tui/Retreat" which probably comes from the character 退 tui4 meaning "retreat; to decline; to move back; to withdraw." So why did Wilhelm use the character 退 tui4 for the name of hexagram 33, when it isn't even in the hexagram text of the Zhouyi or in the Da Xiang for hex33??? 遯 dun4 is used consistently there, as far as I can tell.
遯
(1) To flee, escape, hide away, (var. of 遁 see 90.83).
(2) (AC) deceive.
from: http://humanum.arts.cuhk.edu.hk/Lexis/Lindict/
A suckling pig: 豚兒,豚犬 (court.) formerly, reference to one's own children;
豚魚 (lit.) “suckling pigs and fish,” (AC) 信及豚魚 one's sincerity can move even the lowest creatures.
Sometimes you are the pig, running for your life.
from: http://www.yijing.nl/i_ching/hex_33-48/hex_e_33.htm
This retreat is a matter not of man's will but of natural law...
The meaning that lies hidden ... is important.
Maybe there is something hidden, perhaps in the mountain under the sky. The mountain trigram has the shape of a megalithic door (a dolmen) that used to be buried with the outer appearance of a hill with a secret access.
"within you there is a stillnes and a sanctuary to which you can retreat at any time and be yourself
(another random thought) Is this secret passage leads us to our "sacred place" .
Hesse said :
"within you there is a stillnes and a sanctuary to which you can retreat at any time and be yourself"
Maria
Getojack:...
I think the pig was revered not only as a symbol of good luck and prosperity, but also for it's delicious meat...
"... pork was "more cherished than sweetening or whiskey, something one could never have too much of," and pigs were so exalted that "not the sacred cow of Isis was the subject of more reverential attention. ..."
Marvin Harris: Good to eat.
http://www.amazon.com/Good-Eat-Riddles-Food-Culture/dp/1577660153
Hi, María:.. Is this secret passage leads us to our "sacred place"...
Hesse said...
Rosada:Retreat. Success.
In what is small, perseverance furthers.
... success consists in being able to carry out the retreat correctly.
THE JUDGEMENT
Retreat. Success.
In what is small, perseverance furthers.
Conditions are such that the hostile forces favored by the time are advancing. In this case retreat is the right course, and it is through retreat that success is achieved. But success consists in being able to carry out the retreat correctly.
Luis:You are in a cheerful mood today, aren't you?
Can you ad something to that list?
Charly
Of course, regardless of how good they are, they always end up in our plates... Perhaps that's the real moral of the story...
Un abrazo,
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