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Those of a squeamish disposition may need to look away now.
My standout memory of a 58uc cast, stands out because it was so very reassuring at the time and I was very clear about it. I was due to have a gastroscopy. That is small tube with a camera on the end was to be passed from my throat to my stomach to investigate if there were a problem. I found the idea somewhat horrific. I was having recollections of seeing films where the suffragettes were force fed by tube in prison. I had the idea I'd be pinned down with this rubber tube shoved down my throat.
Can't recall the exact question but the evening before I asked Yi for help and advice and got 58uc. I opened one of Karcher's books and my eye went straight to the word 'open' (which he gives as an optional hexagram title) and I understood. I felt my throat would be open. This wasn't an answer where I pored over the text, I just knew straight away 58uc was a perfect picture of an open throat. Nothing closed, clenched, tight in that answer.
I gag quite easily so thought I may need the optional local anaesthetic, however they just used a numbing spray....and the procedure was done quite easily. However not only was the procedure done quite easily, I came away from it with the sense I'd had a pleasant exchange ! I was treated with such gentle kindness and care it was almost a pleasure ! I must have been blessed with very good staff that day because they knew exactly what to do to make me forget I was having a tube inserted from my nose to stomach. As I went into the room one nurse was cracking jokes to me....actually appearing to enjoy themselves, acting very relaxed and while I was having it done the other one held my head and chatted softly to me about how well I was doing and explaining exactly what was happening at every step.
Wilhelm writes in the Judgement on 58
It is true. Joy in exchange can make hard things seem much less hard.
I remember aged 6 being wheeled off on a trolley to have my tonsils out. I'd just had the meds to make me go under, lose consciousness, but I was still awake whilst being wheeled off down the long corridors to meet my fate. One of the medics decided to ask me all about what I'd had for Christmas and I forgot about everything except giving him the full lowdown on each item...."I had this then I had this, then I, then I .thennnn......."....
I can still remember that faint frustration I had at being unable to finish my sentence......
It's the same thing...it works for me every time I have an injection or anything. As long as someone keep me chatting in a congenial manner I don't notice the pain....well not so much. Wilhelm said the power of joy, of exchange, is so great it even makes death less daunting. I wouldn't know about that.
Recently a nurse told me she always takes note of something about a person when they come on the ward so that when she gives injections and so on she has something personal to chat to them about to take their mind off what she's doing.
So it seems to me 58uc, double lake, is boisterous, strengthening, as if the energy bounces around and makes things feel lighter. It is another kind of penetration. 57 uc subtle, underground, pervasive. 58uc, out there, open, bouncing
So my gastroscopy example was both very literal as my throat stayed open...but my throat surely stayed open and relaxed more because of the laughter and convivial atmosphere in the hospital unit. I realise it's quite deliberate because if patients are tense it will take them a lot longer to get the job done.
Moving on....those of a squeamish disposition can return...I recently asked about some work a friend and I are undertaking together. I guess I asked basically about the validity of it. I got 58uc. Well what I notice is each time I see this friend we speak and laugh pretty much non stop. It's as if there's an overflow....so much to exchange it's hard to stop exchanging when we need to be quiet to do the work. Yet even in quietness there is exchange. I will see how that one pans out but that's what I notice for now.
Wing writes for 58uc
Although 58 can feel boisterous it is also gentle. Of course people can get hooked on fun so I wonder if there are occasions when too much exchange interferes with purpose ? Like when you can't stop talking to your best buddy at school and get into trouble....I imagine that would show up more in the lines. I feel 58uc is pretty uncomplicated.
Any experiences of 58 ? Please share.
My standout memory of a 58uc cast, stands out because it was so very reassuring at the time and I was very clear about it. I was due to have a gastroscopy. That is small tube with a camera on the end was to be passed from my throat to my stomach to investigate if there were a problem. I found the idea somewhat horrific. I was having recollections of seeing films where the suffragettes were force fed by tube in prison. I had the idea I'd be pinned down with this rubber tube shoved down my throat.
I gag quite easily so thought I may need the optional local anaesthetic, however they just used a numbing spray....and the procedure was done quite easily. However not only was the procedure done quite easily, I came away from it with the sense I'd had a pleasant exchange ! I was treated with such gentle kindness and care it was almost a pleasure ! I must have been blessed with very good staff that day because they knew exactly what to do to make me forget I was having a tube inserted from my nose to stomach. As I went into the room one nurse was cracking jokes to me....actually appearing to enjoy themselves, acting very relaxed and while I was having it done the other one held my head and chatted softly to me about how well I was doing and explaining exactly what was happening at every step.
Wilhelm writes in the Judgement on 58
Under certain conditions, intimidation without gentleness may achieve something momentarily, but not for all time. When, on the other hand, the hearts of men are won by friendliness, they are led to take all hardships upon themselves willingly, and if need be will not shun death itself, so great is the power of joy over men.
It is true. Joy in exchange can make hard things seem much less hard.
I remember aged 6 being wheeled off on a trolley to have my tonsils out. I'd just had the meds to make me go under, lose consciousness, but I was still awake whilst being wheeled off down the long corridors to meet my fate. One of the medics decided to ask me all about what I'd had for Christmas and I forgot about everything except giving him the full lowdown on each item...."I had this then I had this, then I, then I .thennnn......."....
I can still remember that faint frustration I had at being unable to finish my sentence......It's the same thing...it works for me every time I have an injection or anything. As long as someone keep me chatting in a congenial manner I don't notice the pain....well not so much. Wilhelm said the power of joy, of exchange, is so great it even makes death less daunting. I wouldn't know about that.
Recently a nurse told me she always takes note of something about a person when they come on the ward so that when she gives injections and so on she has something personal to chat to them about to take their mind off what she's doing.
So it seems to me 58uc, double lake, is boisterous, strengthening, as if the energy bounces around and makes things feel lighter. It is another kind of penetration. 57 uc subtle, underground, pervasive. 58uc, out there, open, bouncing
So my gastroscopy example was both very literal as my throat stayed open...but my throat surely stayed open and relaxed more because of the laughter and convivial atmosphere in the hospital unit. I realise it's quite deliberate because if patients are tense it will take them a lot longer to get the job done.
Moving on....those of a squeamish disposition can return...I recently asked about some work a friend and I are undertaking together. I guess I asked basically about the validity of it. I got 58uc. Well what I notice is each time I see this friend we speak and laugh pretty much non stop. It's as if there's an overflow....so much to exchange it's hard to stop exchanging when we need to be quiet to do the work. Yet even in quietness there is exchange. I will see how that one pans out but that's what I notice for now.
Wing writes for 58uc
The trigram, TUI, openness and pleasure, is repeated and shared in the realms of cosmic ideals and human affairs. The unchanging hexagram bodes a continuing success, which is dependent on your relations with others. Keep this in mind, particularly in regard to the object of your inquiry. Your goals can come to fruition in an atmosphere of gentleness and goodwill toward others. Difficulties will arise now if your endeavours are toward the self sufficient.
Although 58 can feel boisterous it is also gentle. Of course people can get hooked on fun so I wonder if there are occasions when too much exchange interferes with purpose ? Like when you can't stop talking to your best buddy at school and get into trouble....I imagine that would show up more in the lines. I feel 58uc is pretty uncomplicated.
Any experiences of 58 ? Please share.