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Most of us, most of the time, consult the YiJing in times of crisis. The underlying message of so many readings is 'Help! I can't see what to do - I'm at my wit's end!' Or in my case, 'um, I think I must have passed the end of my wits some miles back, but I've only just noticed...'
If readings aren't about crisis management, they're often about specific plans. Starting up something new, wanting Yi to comment on the idea - endorse it, hopefully - and give some advice on how to make a success of things...
New Year offers an opening for a different kind of reading. The 'everyday' readings are about getting to grips with things - this is more a time for opening your hands to welcome what comes. Time to take two steps back and get an overview of past and future.
According to Stephen Karcher, winter was a time for the people of ancient China to leave the fields, stop work, retreat into their homes and shut themselves in. Rather as if people became like deeply buried seeds - you know there are some seeds that won't germinate at all unless they've first been exposed to frost. Activity has to stop, completely, before it can start again. (I can't help thinking that it must be very different in the southern hemisphere. Maybe if you're listening to this from over there, you'll want to come back to the idea in about 6 months' time.)
Of course we still recognise something similar, with the 'New Year's resolution' tradition. And all the people selling coaching programs and goal-setting software know it: they're promoting on overdrive this month. We still consciously set this time of year apart to take a couple of steps back, disengage, and take the longer view.
So... some good questions for the New Year. I like to start out by asking about the old one... and for 2004, for me, it boils down to 'What happened?' I'm using this time to work out why so very few of the things I had planned a year ago have come to anything - and gradually getting clearer about it.
You might have some particular event or non-event or trend of 2004 to ask about - perhaps with a question like 'how can I overcome that?' or 'how can I build on that?'
Or you might settle for asking, simply, 'What can I learn from last year?'
Then I'd suggest taking a while - maybe the next ten days or so :-) - to turn that one over in your mind and let it sink in. These things take time to ripen.
When you've looked at how you got here, you'll want to face the other way - see where you're going. I wouldn't suggest asking for a prediction, no 'what's going to happen in 2005?' I mean, it's not as if you were going to spend the next 12 months sitting watching your life pass by on a little screen. Try asking instead for advice for the coming year - or 'What do I need to know?'
The way I usually put it is to ask for my path for the coming year. It's more of an open-ended question: you might get a picture of where you're headed or advice on how to deal with any monsters along the road.
This year I asked for my path for 2005, and please, to show me something I could use now to ensure I started off on the right track. Yi gave me hexagram 56 changing to 52: the traveller keeping still. When I do keep still - not something I've done a lot of in 2004 - I realise that I'm only in a temporary shelter, and the property and axe I've earned so far are not going to gladden my heart. They're only means to an end at best, and I need to refocus on the destination.
OK, this is probably hard to convey, but for me that was one of those readings where the master clouts you on the head with a big stick to wake you up. It's quite unlike my reading for 2004, which basically took me all of 2004 to understand. So anyway... how can you use what I've learned from this?
First, do take the time for annual readings. There's something about doing a reading you don't have to do, asking for insight you don't have to have - a rare opportunity to see that bit further and deeper.
Secondly, think about what you most want and need from this reading, and focus on asking for that. Maybe something to unfold over the year, maybe something to get you back on track and help you stay there - whatever it is, Yi will provide what you ask for.
Thirdly, do record your reading somewhere you'll see it. Pin it on the wall, write it on the mirror, load it as your computer's screensaver -whatever will bring your attention back to it throughout the year.
Oh yes - and enjoy it! Isn't it extraordinary that we should be given insight like this just for the asking?
Have a wonderful Christmas, won't you? And I wish you all the very best for a joyful and fulfilling New Year.